Wednesday, June 28, 2006

How I Became a Soul Mate Expert

A while back, I had someone question my abilities as a soul mate expert. According to my website, she stated, there was nothing proving my abilities to be an expert, only my self-professed claim to be one.

At first, I couldn't understand why she was questioning my abilities until it dawned on me that she was right. I do not have a diploma stating that I graduated from so-and-so university, so why would people actually believe what I had to say had any merit?

I know why and I'll explain.

There are some people out there - many actually - who are born with a gift. It might be the ability to see things that aren't there or even the ability to perceive things they have no way of knowing. It was about two years ago or so when I had the privilege of talking to well-known psychic, Robert Egby, who actually teaches those who seek to learn how to become a psychic by trade.

In one of our online conversations, I happen to ask him if he were wearing brown shoes. He answered, "yes." I also asked him if there was a gold framed picture on the wall near him and, again, he said, "yes." He asked me why I asked.

I told him because in talking to him, I could "see" these things and wanted to know if perhaps they were definitely there.

He then told me that I had the gift of spacial clairsentience. I asked him what it meant and he said "to see afar things that aren't in front of you."

I thought that was interesting as I had found one of my gifts that my creator had bestowed upon me.

It was after this conversation when I wondered just how many people out there had gifts and didn't even know it.

My ability to know about the soul mate theory is correlated to this gift.

Ever since Mr. Egby and I spoke, I delved into my innerself - with meditations and private soul talks within myself. After my twin soul died, I tended to do this quite often and chose a corner of my little heaven on earth - underneath the pines overlooking the gigantic corn field - and while I was sitting there, listening to the sea gulls flap and cry overhead, I knew that this was what I was intended to do.

It was then that I understood why I had experienced good relationships, bad relationships and in between - and after fifty years of doing this, I found the wisdom to try to help people with their own relationships, but it went deeper than that.

Before my twin soul died, I wasn't what you would call a spiritual sort of person. I was a fly by the seat of my pants type of girl and figured everything that was happening to me - bad and good - was just a part of life. However, after he died, I questioned my spirituality. How could my creator bring someone in my life and take him away just like that?

I happened to be in a bookstore on vacation and I picked up a book called EDGAR CAYCE ON SOUL MATES by Kevin J. Todesh and I read it. That book helped open my eyes to the reason why my twin soul came into my life, and then so abruptly left it.

He was my twin soul.

Now, I thought, what about the others in my life who at the time I just knew they were the ones for me? Didn't they start out with high hopes and a bright future? Didn't I love them just as much?

That was when I started reading everything I could get my hands on to explain what this soul mate thing was all about - and that was the beginning of becoming an expert in my field.

I don't believe that everything you find out in life can be found in text books and a lot is learned through life experiences and tuning into your innerself. I also don't believe you need a college education to know that this can't be learned through intuition and an incredible foresight. Experience plays a major role in becoming good at what you do. They say practice makes perfect and I believe if you believe in yourself, you will find the answers to what you are looking for. The key is to find out how to unlock that door.

I've talked to people who are looking for their soul mate and they tell me that after all their searching, they still can't find theirs and this makes me sad because I know there are soul mates out there for them. If you have a question on soul mates, please write to me at soulmateexpert(at)yahoo.com and I will help you find the answers you are looking for.

If you would like more in-depth reading on how to recognize your soul mate, my eBook, HOW TO FIND AND KEEP YOUR SOUL MATE, will help you do that. If you would like to read a collection of true soul mate stories from around the world, my book, ROMANCING THE SOUL, would be perfect for that.

No matter which way you do it, finding out the real reasons why certain people come into your life is the key to your own happiness and well-being. Once you understand the powerful impact these people have on your life, you won't need an expert to tell you how to run your relationships. You'll KNOW.

May all your soul mate dreams come true!

Love and Light,

Dorothy
www.soulmatequeen.com